Andrea answers some more viewers' pressing dating questions. It doesn't matter how strange or uncomfortable, she's got an explanation for whoever is wondering about issues regarding finding a mate.
I was just recently divorced at 43. I didn't want this but he would not go to counseling. He has moved states away and lives with his family, who now hates me. They are very vindictive and controling. When ever I try to talk to him, his new girlfriend (He met on the internet and has 2 children by 2 different fathers)and or sister take the phone from him and won't let us speak. He used to be a very kind and strong man. It seems as if he can't even speak for himself anymore. I truely love him still, even after all the hurtful things he has said and let be said. How do I just let go of someone I care so much about? I am seeing someone, but do not feel real love like I did with my husband. I have enrolled in college to finish my degree, but at the same time feel I will end up alone in the end since I spend all my time working and in school. Help I feel like I am falling apart while trying to apear so strong.
Danijenee
Soon to be 47, YIKES ,this week,I was widowed 12 years ago,dated for a short while and ended a 7 year relationshi 9 months ago. There is a man who works somwhere I frequent,not a bar,there is something about him I really like! he mentioned he bartends at a local resort to me and I should come there ! He seems to be very friendly to everyone..and he mentioned to me he had a 16 yr old daughter how do I find out if he is married? or in a relationshi ? how do I know if he may be interested in me? I would love to ask him for a drink or coffee...UGh !! I want to be brave but I am so scared to be rejected !! Thanks !!
Hi Adrea,
i love the nice guy bight and makes since. as well with how awsome that your also a life coach. but how do you break the bad news to some one when you dont wana hurt them and they have put everthing out there for you.
Hey justme, While I'm not Andrea I can tell that you need to let them know exactly how you feel. If you leave any doubt in their mind they will still pursue you. It's unfortunate, but you must tell them,"Hey, you're nice, but I'm not attracted to you." See how he/she responds. It's going to be painful for them nomatter what you say so get it all of your chest so you don't have to revisit the situation again. Peace
Ok Valley, you just need to calm down. lol First, Don't tell her you love her! lol You take her out on a casual date(some kind of sport, fishing, bakery, picnic) if she says "no" then you know right there to shut up, but if she says "yes" take it from there. Until you guys are seriously into a relationship...DONT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER. She will think you are a psycho(which you might be/idk)lol and never call you back. If you are psycho, then the above situation will still work because it covers your psycho tracks by playing it slow...lol I love this board
Hi there, can any one give me Andrea's e-mail address. I need to ask her so many question on relationship. Please please if some one know, please tell me!!
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I was just recently divorced at 43. I didn't want this but he would not go to counseling. He has moved states away and lives with his family, who now hates me. They are very vindictive and controling. When ever I try to talk to him, his new girlfriend (He met on the internet and has 2 children by 2 different fathers)and or sister take the phone from him and won't let us speak. He used to be a very kind and strong man. It seems as if he can't even speak for himself anymore. I truely love him still, even after all the hurtful things he has said and let be said. How do I just let go of someone I care so much about? I am seeing someone, but do not feel real love like I did with my husband. I have enrolled in college to finish my degree, but at the same time feel I will end up alone in the end since I spend all my time working and in school. Help I feel like I am falling apart while trying to apear so strong.
Danijenee
Soon to be 47, YIKES ,this week,I was widowed 12 years ago,dated for a short while and ended a 7 year relationshi 9 months ago. There is a man who works somwhere I frequent,not a bar,there is something about him I really like! he mentioned he bartends at a local resort to me and I should come there ! He seems to be very friendly to everyone..and he mentioned to me he had a 16 yr old daughter how do I find out if he is married? or in a relationshi ? how do I know if he may be interested in me? I would love to ask him for a drink or coffee...UGh !! I want to be brave but I am so scared to be rejected !! Thanks !!
Hi Adrea,
i love the nice guy bight and makes since. as well with how awsome that your also a life coach. but how do you break the bad news to some one when you dont wana hurt them and they have put everthing out there for you.
Hey justme, While I'm not Andrea I can tell that you need to let them know exactly how you feel. If you leave any doubt in their mind they will still pursue you. It's unfortunate, but you must tell them,"Hey, you're nice, but I'm not attracted to you." See how he/she responds. It's going to be painful for them nomatter what you say so get it all of your chest so you don't have to revisit the situation again. Peace
hello,i have a friend i like so very much i dont want to ruin our friendship and i want her to know i love her what do i do?someone help me!!
Ok Valley, you just need to calm down. lol First, Don't tell her you love her! lol You take her out on a casual date(some kind of sport, fishing, bakery, picnic) if she says "no" then you know right there to shut up, but if she says "yes" take it from there. Until you guys are seriously into a relationship...DONT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER. She will think you are a psycho(which you might be/idk)lol and never call you back. If you are psycho, then the above situation will still work because it covers your psycho tracks by playing it slow...lol I love this board
Hi there, can any one give me Andrea's e-mail address. I need to ask her so many question on relationship. Please please if some one know, please tell me!!
Always fun to hear Andrea field that crazy questions...
good advice ... even a bad date makes a good story...
ralph
Cute.