Hi, I need some advice. I am an international student studying for nursing. After a week or two since the start of school, I was approached by this hunky good looking guy and asked if we can be study buddies. He asked for my phone number and from there we started this wonderful relationship. As the days progressed, we hang out before and after our class. I like him the first time i met him. There is something about him I can't explain. One time he asked for a hug and next thing I knew he gave me a big smack on the lips. After that he called and apologized. A few days after I decided to tell him a litte more about myself. I want to be honest with him so that whatever it is that is happening between us, and for sure there is chemistry between us, that I will not be feeling mad at myself. I am a 41 yrs old single mom of 3 and 14 years older than him, but I don't look my age. I look 10 years younger and still fit. My looks can fool people. I have been out of a relationship for 4 years and meeting him has open feelings that I never thought I will be feeling again. There is this one time I will never forget, we gave each other a nice hug but then the hug felt different, much more special than the normal one and that is when he kissed me and it turned passionate. It happened the second time when we were alone again. But it never went to 2nd or 3rd base. We talked about it afterwards and we were both open about it. I don't know if it was just my hormones acting up because everytime he is around he gives me this tingling feeling and my thoughts goes haywire. We agreed not to kiss nor give each other special hugs anymore. We try to keep it on a safe level. It is very hard seeing him and not feeling like this. We will be there for each other as long as we can. He told me he cared a lot for me. And what makes me like him more is because he didn't take advantage of my feelings. I don't know what to do. I asked myself why of all the female in that class, I am the one he asked. He is in my thoughts most of the time. I am just wondering if this pent up, bottled emotions that I have for him will just explode one day and I don't know what I will do . I am also thinking that I am older than him. Should I just stay away from him as possible or just continue this crazy relationship?
ON Dating - Friend Zone
Hi, I need some advice. I am an international student studying for nursing. After a week or two since the start of school, I was approached by this hunky good looking guy and asked if we can be study buddies. He asked for my phone number and from there we started this wonderful relationship. As the days progressed, we hang out before and after our class. I like him the first time i met him. There is something about him I can't explain. One time he asked for a hug and next thing I knew he gave me a big smack on the lips. After that he called and apologized. A few days after I decided to tell him a litte more about myself. I want to be honest with him so that whatever it is that is happening between us, and for sure there is chemistry between us, that I will not be feeling mad at myself. I am a 41 yrs old single mom of 3 and 14 years older than him, but I don't look my age. I look 10 years younger and still fit. My looks can fool people. I have been out of a relationship for 4 years and meeting him has open feelings that I never thought I will be feeling again. There is this one time I will never forget, we gave each other a nice hug but then the hug felt different, much more special than the normal one and that is when he kissed me and it turned passionate. It happened the second time when we were alone again. But it never went to 2nd or 3rd base. We talked about it afterwards and we were both open about it. I don't know if it was just my hormones acting up because everytime he is around he gives me this tingling feeling and my thoughts goes haywire. We agreed not to kiss nor give each other special hugs anymore. We try to keep it on a safe level. It is very hard seeing him and not feeling like this. We will be there for each other as long as we can. He told me he cared a lot for me. And what makes me like him more is because he didn't take advantage of my feelings. I don't know what to do. I asked myself why of all the female in that class, I am the one he asked. He is in my thoughts most of the time. I am just wondering if this pent up, bottled emotions that I have for him will just explode one day and I don't know what I will do . I am also thinking that I am older than him. Should I just stay away from him as possible or just continue this crazy relationship?