Hi RQRose,
I just want to let you know that I do not think that only Ameriacan girls/woman think like that.When a heart of a woman is not prepared for sharing love and pain, good and bad, than the only person she can think of is herself! I hope you will meet Christian ladies as well. A Christian lady , who has been in the church at least 2 years and attended some cours about Christ and His únconditional Love for the people AND she received that love and forgiveness in her own heart, SHE WILL be able to give you the love you need.So question nr.1: are you willing to check this out by -openly- get in touch by Christians (evangelistic)and let them know that you are SO disapointed in the behaviour and mindset of the women you met. If you are open to them and they see that you are serious maybe they can explain you better why the women think like that AND MOST IMPORTANT WHY they do NOT think like that anymore WITHOUT being boring. Yes, it IS all about Jesus and His love for us, BUT you must not have the Idea that you have to believe before you can talk to these ladies.
To develope relationships with them is something else. It will start with friendship and talking. A real Christian lady will not step into a love affair just like that, because she NOW has discovered her worth/value and her Identity in God and does not want to loose all that again. She feels respected and can respect others. So, real love waits...
I wish you all the best and a REAL intermezzo with the REAL and DEEP LOVE of God, Jesus Christ who can CHANGE any selfish heart if they let HIM...! Bless YOU.
I great you from the Netherlands, Europe.
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Hi RQRose,
I just want to let you know that I do not think that only Ameriacan girls/woman think like that.When a heart of a woman is not prepared for sharing love and pain, good and bad, than the only person she can think of is herself! I hope you will meet Christian ladies as well. A Christian lady , who has been in the church at least 2 years and attended some cours about Christ and His únconditional Love for the people AND she received that love and forgiveness in her own heart, SHE WILL be able to give you the love you need.So question nr.1: are you willing to check this out by -openly- get in touch by Christians (evangelistic)and let them know that you are SO disapointed in the behaviour and mindset of the women you met. If you are open to them and they see that you are serious maybe they can explain you better why the women think like that AND MOST IMPORTANT WHY they do NOT think like that anymore WITHOUT being boring. Yes, it IS all about Jesus and His love for us, BUT you must not have the Idea that you have to believe before you can talk to these ladies.
To develope relationships with them is something else. It will start with friendship and talking. A real Christian lady will not step into a love affair just like that, because she NOW has discovered her worth/value and her Identity in God and does not want to loose all that again. She feels respected and can respect others. So, real love waits...
I wish you all the best and a REAL intermezzo with the REAL and DEEP LOVE of God, Jesus Christ who can CHANGE any selfish heart if they let HIM...! Bless YOU.
I great you from the Netherlands, Europe.